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JOLYNN CHEW

A goddamn PERFECTIONIST
loves to be doted on like a PRINCESS
Looks for SINCERITY, SUPPORT, UNDERSTANDING in a person
she Is MATERIALISTIC
LOVES belle, and that's FOREVER.
EASY to talk to, but HARD to please.


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If your heart is in your dream, no request is too extreme. :)

SHE WANTS ........................

to be a little more successful
to be carefree
to receive flowers heehee !!
surprises and more surprises !!

ACHIEVED WISHES

a new laptop
chio laptop case
more nice clothes =D
a new phone DATED Nov 2009

UN-ACHIEVED ONES

laser treatment for my face
SNSD concert tickets
holidays to Thailand, HK, UK, US, Aussie and China?
go overseas with my love one DATED long ago
unlimited slimming sessions LOL DATED since young
BURBERRY wallet DATED Mar 2008
GUCCI LV bag DATED Aug 2009
a new phone DATED Nov 2009
CANON IXUS 130 in orange DATED Mar 2010
hotel stayovers DATED June 2010


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Sunday, December 19, 2010
parents and love @ 8:25 PM

sorry for the long long long long hiatus. i actually almost closed down this blog, but memories are all too special and precious to forgo.

so what sparked this post?

i stumbled across this blog yesterday, again:
http://ashleyisourangel.blogspot.com/

it depicts the pain of parents who fought battles with their unfortunate seedlings, who eventually lost their chances to embark on the journey of life with them.

for the posts, made me treasure my life so much. you think kids come by easy? just screw and get pregnant?

my dearest mommy had a few miscarriages before she gave birth to me, and another one after i was born. it made me feel alot luckier to be able to live, and an affinity i never want to break. mommy went through all the setbacks and breakdowns to have me, and now she only has me.

i started reading this years back, and as i read through the older posts, i was deeply saddened that i cried. conception and pregnancies might have been a breeze for most of the couples, or some even try to prevent them. but such simple joy to us, they fought hard and tough. they treasured moments like we never did. they lose three kids and all the faith, but never the love.

so what is love and life really? it's our parents and us becoming parents.

ok i don't know how to go on here ......... but i'm just really affected.



8:25 PM

No man means all he says, and yet very few say all they mean,
for words are slippery and thoughts are vicious.