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JOLYNN CHEW
BORN on the 30th of OCTOBER.
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loves to be doted on like a PRINCESS
Looks for SINCERITY, SUPPORT, UNDERSTANDING in a person
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LOVES belle, and that's FOREVER.
EASY to talk to, but HARD to please.


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If your heart is in your dream, no request is too extreme. :)

SHE WANTS ........................

to be a little more successful
to be carefree
to receive flowers heehee !!
surprises and more surprises !!

ACHIEVED WISHES

a new laptop
chio laptop case
more nice clothes =D
a new phone DATED Nov 2009

UN-ACHIEVED ONES

laser treatment for my face
SNSD concert tickets
holidays to Thailand, HK, UK, US, Aussie and China?
go overseas with my love one DATED long ago
unlimited slimming sessions LOL DATED since young
BURBERRY wallet DATED Mar 2008
GUCCI LV bag DATED Aug 2009
a new phone DATED Nov 2009
CANON IXUS 130 in orange DATED Mar 2010
hotel stayovers DATED June 2010


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Wednesday, March 16, 2011
maternal instincts are contagious. @ 6:09 AM

so as you can see, the title of my post is about maternal instincts being contagious. why so?

a few of my friends have given birth on this week, and i feel so excited just reading their stories. i don't know if you people know this, but mommies link up each other on blogs, facebook, twitter, and for some, plurk. and then they help one another with symptoms and issues, so it's easy for me to blog hop like never-ending.

i got so hooked up on reading their birth stories and discovering their precious' existence in them, that's the reason why i ain't sleep even till now. (time check: 6.14am)

got to know so much about pregnancy until i feel like i'm prepared for one LOL ~ i should totally go and conceive one if singapore has a like sperm donation center right, so that i can wear the dress given to me by belley. (YOU WISH !! definitely kidding about this one.)

most of the pregnancies whether planned or unplanned are caused by accidents such as condoms breaking(LOL), and the failure of the withdrawal (if you know what i'm talking about). there're also rare cases of IVF, and such.

among all pregnancies i think it's pretty almost very common that babies need to be induced before being delivered. like when the EDD(expected delivery/due date) is up, and no symptoms of labour are found, doctors inserted like painfully big pills into THERE, to trigger contractions. if my child in future lazy to come out, i will threaten to eat pineapple HAHAHA !! obviously kidding right.

some of the stories are like so touching until i was moved to tears, no joke. but there're some husbands who are total jerks la. i mean most guys will stay with their wives once they admit into hospital, unless for very urgent matters. but i read that some went to meet up with friends and missed the birth of his child =.= worse still, WENT TO PLAY ARCADE !! o.0

seriously what were they thinking? if i'm the wife, i will throw the baby to him to look after singlehandedly for 10months since he thinks it's nothing to bear a child. and it's definitely a discounted punishment lor, just physically being tired. if the baby was a part of him affecting his emotions and mental state, giving him morning sickness, i think he'll also be damn sad if his wife is not supportive just like how he is now. teach him a lesson man. how can he miss that precious moment OMG !!

ok bringing new lives into this world is sucha happy thing, we should just ignore the sad parts. (though i read on a new born having a big hole in her heart, ok i know, stop being sad.)

i think it's so noble to be a mummy, and it sure feels blessed to receive great support from people around you like other mummies, your husband, family, etc. and i wonder if i'll be a happy mummy next time, or like some sad cases, whereby the people around them are just total BS. i hope not luh huh =/

thing is ......... why think so much LOL !!

it's hard enough to even find a BF. (not those anyhow grab one de la, someone who's truly suitable)

i'm not even financially stable at all.

definitely not emotionally ready for commitments.

and i'm still childish hahaha.




but i'm really really curious how it feels like to be pregnant leh lol. how i wish one of my close friends can get married and have a kid soon, and then tell me all the interesting stories. i'm sure it's gonna be a different viewpoint as compared to reading blogs. jia you ah my friends =)))



6:09 AM

No man means all he says, and yet very few say all they mean,
for words are slippery and thoughts are vicious.