Monday, March 7, 2011

the most absurd people - EVER @ 3:49 PM

although on the calendar, after monday and tuesday, it reads WTF, it continues with SO SORRY MY TURN. after seeing all the rubbish, i feel like talking rubbish too.

if you get along well with a person, you're friends.
if you incoporate some part of your life with a person, you're good friends.
if you wish that person would incoporate his/her life with you, yes you like them.

but definitely, if you wish the person to like you as well, there need to be things done.

yesterday i rejected a guy and then i got the most absurd reaction from him ever.

WHY? BUT I THOUGHT YOU'RE SINGLE?

so? is that by any chance because of you? NO !! does it mean if i'm not, you won't even ask me out, not to say be your girlfriend or something? so freaking pathetic !! single so what? does it mean you need to grab any girl who's single to be your GF? there's no need to get into a relationship unless you really like that person dumb =.=

and then the most common reasons you'll find is ......

oh because we got closer recently and we hang out more, and everything seems like quite okay so maybe we could give it a try? i thought we could have something more going on.

HELLO ~ no effort no effort !! if you like somebody, even if things are not okay, you still like him/her alright? you will try make things go well for each other. if you only develop feelings when things are going well, and then feel a tad lesser when things are not on track, then you're just too goddamn shallow. and me going out with you, and playing along, DOESN'T MEAN I WANNA BE YOUR GF =.= it's more like a case of trying to be polite, you mean you don't even realize that so much of a coincidence i'm ok with all your plans?


AND OKAY .......... some guys really need to know the difference when they say date as compared to just going out. a date is for someone you're prolly real interested in, or your best friend. a lot more attention needs to be paid if you're going out on a DATE.

ok i'm talking about mostly group dates here. one-to-one is about too sensitive to talk about, as it varies much.

most of the times EPIC FAIL can. usually girls don't like it because it's mostly NATO (no action talk only), but some, can't even pass on the speech. but when it comes to bullshit, everyone is a pro lor.

during a group date, when your buddy makes an attempt at something, and fails, you call them pussy. when a girl is at loss what to do, you call them bimbo. we scream, you say drama. eh but too bad, when something happen, you only talk cock. make lame comments. everything except thinking and solving. at least those whom you call pussy, bimbo, or dramatic, TRIED to solve the problem.

if you're capable, come and ego i don't mind.
if you're also inefficient, please screw away with your ego. don't talk so much cock. your inability is there to see.


i especially hate those who are indecisive yet troublesome. don't date people out and waste their time if you know you don't have anything to do. you don't know what to do, people suggest you comment .......

but i don't really go (fill in the blank) leh .... [what suggest you then?]
wah not worth the money leh ....... [then what's worth?]

whichever more reasons you can think of luh huh. and sometimes thinking halfway ...........

*in a group*
Guy A to Guy B: oh let's go for a game of (LAN/pool/arcade/whatever) first.
Guy B to Guy A: okokok. maybe we can think of where to go after that.

after the game .................

Guys: so where to go ah?

_|_ please. in the end also never solve the problem, and you leave the poor girl hanging there and waiting. is this all about responsibility and priorities? YES.

if you so easily forget what's next on the list just because of a small distraction, major fail. don't waste people's time !!

and oh ~!! sometimes girls do get the blames for such cases. the guy planned, and brought the girl to quite ATAS places. what i mean by ATAS is >$30, for an average meal. so the girl didn't prepare enough money, and so she's accused of SPOILING the date.

eh please, you're planning an outing for two people, not yourself. if you are not ready to burn that hole from your pocket, kindly inform your partner in advance so she could feedback if she isn't going for that price.


ok all these is happening because those guys (in the above scenarios) are taking chances with girls. they don't really like them, but they're asking them out to see if by any chance, they become their girlfriends. (not all, but quite a handful.) whether they become a couple anot, it's purely based on what happens on dates. if it's smooth, pop the question. if not, then let's not be tgt lest things cock up again. (WTF)

BTW, i'm not talking about normal friend outings, i'm talking about dates here. double date or whatever counts as well.

if you really really liked the girl, you would've done some planning or so, to make the date go well. excuses such as ....

i didn't know the place moved house liao .....
i didn't expect it to be so expensive .....
i don't know there'll be a queue ......
i don't know the journey is so long ......

CAN be eliminated if you did some simple google search before you head out. if you're too lazy to even bother, it speaks alot about your sincerity.

however, if there was an unexpected event that caused a crowd, or traffic jams, girls please be understanding. but other than that, you can choose to walk off cause they don't deserve your company. just a gentle reminder again, i'm talking about a date with someone you like.

so what's the world becoming right now? relationship is about taking chances, no proper thinking or planning, zero sincerity, all based on luck and scenario is it? wherever god takes you uh.

please lor even if you pray to god for good results, you also have to study right =.=

SO THE POINT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO DRILL SINCE THE START OF THE POST IS ......

if you've never even put in enough effort to build a platform to walk, don't blame anybody if you fall. do you think just saying you like someone suffices enough feelings to start a relationship? simple phrase saying "walk the talk" is what that will get you going.

if you truly sincerely interested in somebody for who he/she is, prove it. those about planning and being considerate are just really small gestures. if you're too concerned about your own set of things and you think it's not possible to have enough time to plan, then you prolly don't like him/her enough. don't psycho yourself and date them out, cause no relationship like that is going to work.

taking chances bring about many negative impacts on others.

1) they feel lousy. they're many awesome people out there going on wonderfully planned dates, when they're stuck there hoping a good plan/solution comes out.

2) they feel awkward.

3) they feel insecure. cause they can't even be sure of what cock up problems you've next for them as you don't even have a plan. so don't even think of a relationship in this case.

4) they feel annoyed and frustrated. time is wasted, bullshit is heard.


so people, don't date people out unless you're really into them, and is willing to make the day start and end well. if not, just be friends, why the stress?

don't promise more than you're able to deliver.

Monday, March 7, 2011

the most absurd people - EVER @ 3:49 PM

although on the calendar, after monday and tuesday, it reads WTF, it continues with SO SORRY MY TURN. after seeing all the rubbish, i feel like talking rubbish too.

if you get along well with a person, you're friends.
if you incoporate some part of your life with a person, you're good friends.
if you wish that person would incoporate his/her life with you, yes you like them.

but definitely, if you wish the person to like you as well, there need to be things done.

yesterday i rejected a guy and then i got the most absurd reaction from him ever.

WHY? BUT I THOUGHT YOU'RE SINGLE?

so? is that by any chance because of you? NO !! does it mean if i'm not, you won't even ask me out, not to say be your girlfriend or something? so freaking pathetic !! single so what? does it mean you need to grab any girl who's single to be your GF? there's no need to get into a relationship unless you really like that person dumb =.=

and then the most common reasons you'll find is ......

oh because we got closer recently and we hang out more, and everything seems like quite okay so maybe we could give it a try? i thought we could have something more going on.

HELLO ~ no effort no effort !! if you like somebody, even if things are not okay, you still like him/her alright? you will try make things go well for each other. if you only develop feelings when things are going well, and then feel a tad lesser when things are not on track, then you're just too goddamn shallow. and me going out with you, and playing along, DOESN'T MEAN I WANNA BE YOUR GF =.= it's more like a case of trying to be polite, you mean you don't even realize that so much of a coincidence i'm ok with all your plans?


AND OKAY .......... some guys really need to know the difference when they say date as compared to just going out. a date is for someone you're prolly real interested in, or your best friend. a lot more attention needs to be paid if you're going out on a DATE.

ok i'm talking about mostly group dates here. one-to-one is about too sensitive to talk about, as it varies much.

most of the times EPIC FAIL can. usually girls don't like it because it's mostly NATO (no action talk only), but some, can't even pass on the speech. but when it comes to bullshit, everyone is a pro lor.

during a group date, when your buddy makes an attempt at something, and fails, you call them pussy. when a girl is at loss what to do, you call them bimbo. we scream, you say drama. eh but too bad, when something happen, you only talk cock. make lame comments. everything except thinking and solving. at least those whom you call pussy, bimbo, or dramatic, TRIED to solve the problem.

if you're capable, come and ego i don't mind.
if you're also inefficient, please screw away with your ego. don't talk so much cock. your inability is there to see.


i especially hate those who are indecisive yet troublesome. don't date people out and waste their time if you know you don't have anything to do. you don't know what to do, people suggest you comment .......

but i don't really go (fill in the blank) leh .... [what suggest you then?]
wah not worth the money leh ....... [then what's worth?]

whichever more reasons you can think of luh huh. and sometimes thinking halfway ...........

*in a group*
Guy A to Guy B: oh let's go for a game of (LAN/pool/arcade/whatever) first.
Guy B to Guy A: okokok. maybe we can think of where to go after that.

after the game .................

Guys: so where to go ah?

_|_ please. in the end also never solve the problem, and you leave the poor girl hanging there and waiting. is this all about responsibility and priorities? YES.

if you so easily forget what's next on the list just because of a small distraction, major fail. don't waste people's time !!

and oh ~!! sometimes girls do get the blames for such cases. the guy planned, and brought the girl to quite ATAS places. what i mean by ATAS is >$30, for an average meal. so the girl didn't prepare enough money, and so she's accused of SPOILING the date.

eh please, you're planning an outing for two people, not yourself. if you are not ready to burn that hole from your pocket, kindly inform your partner in advance so she could feedback if she isn't going for that price.


ok all these is happening because those guys (in the above scenarios) are taking chances with girls. they don't really like them, but they're asking them out to see if by any chance, they become their girlfriends. (not all, but quite a handful.) whether they become a couple anot, it's purely based on what happens on dates. if it's smooth, pop the question. if not, then let's not be tgt lest things cock up again. (WTF)

BTW, i'm not talking about normal friend outings, i'm talking about dates here. double date or whatever counts as well.

if you really really liked the girl, you would've done some planning or so, to make the date go well. excuses such as ....

i didn't know the place moved house liao .....
i didn't expect it to be so expensive .....
i don't know there'll be a queue ......
i don't know the journey is so long ......

CAN be eliminated if you did some simple google search before you head out. if you're too lazy to even bother, it speaks alot about your sincerity.

however, if there was an unexpected event that caused a crowd, or traffic jams, girls please be understanding. but other than that, you can choose to walk off cause they don't deserve your company. just a gentle reminder again, i'm talking about a date with someone you like.

so what's the world becoming right now? relationship is about taking chances, no proper thinking or planning, zero sincerity, all based on luck and scenario is it? wherever god takes you uh.

please lor even if you pray to god for good results, you also have to study right =.=

SO THE POINT I'VE BEEN TRYING TO DRILL SINCE THE START OF THE POST IS ......

if you've never even put in enough effort to build a platform to walk, don't blame anybody if you fall. do you think just saying you like someone suffices enough feelings to start a relationship? simple phrase saying "walk the talk" is what that will get you going.

if you truly sincerely interested in somebody for who he/she is, prove it. those about planning and being considerate are just really small gestures. if you're too concerned about your own set of things and you think it's not possible to have enough time to plan, then you prolly don't like him/her enough. don't psycho yourself and date them out, cause no relationship like that is going to work.

taking chances bring about many negative impacts on others.

1) they feel lousy. they're many awesome people out there going on wonderfully planned dates, when they're stuck there hoping a good plan/solution comes out.

2) they feel awkward.

3) they feel insecure. cause they can't even be sure of what cock up problems you've next for them as you don't even have a plan. so don't even think of a relationship in this case.

4) they feel annoyed and frustrated. time is wasted, bullshit is heard.


so people, don't date people out unless you're really into them, and is willing to make the day start and end well. if not, just be friends, why the stress?

don't promise more than you're able to deliver.